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A Themed Birthday Party For A Man

It’s no secret that, when it comes to entertaining, I like myself a theme. It is fairly easy to come up with an idea for a kid’s birthday party. Things like Super Heroes, Disney Princesses, or Harry Potter make great party themes. Women aren’t that difficult to party plan for either. A pretty color-scheme and a profusion of flowers usually do the trick. However, coming up with a themed birthday party for a man is a bit more difficult. There’s sports and. . . I am out.

I have to confess that over the 30-plus years that I have been celebrating my husband’s birthday; his special day has gotten short shrift. This is due, primarily, to the fact that his birthday falls during the second week of January. And frankly, after the hoopla of Christmas and New Year’s, I’d be more enthusiastic about a sharp stick in the eye than about planning another celebration.

This is not to say that I haven’t rallied from time to time to throw him a party. My husband is an avid golfer, so one year my kids and I created our own wacky miniature golf course in the backyard for his birthday. Another year we had a Steelers party. When he turned 40, I threw him an Indian-themed bash, complete with decorations, Chicken Tikka Masala, Beef Vindaloo, and baskets of warm garlic Nan. This was because he had frequently reminisced about the mouth-watering curries his father (who spent time in India with the British Army Corps Of Engineers), used to make for the family when he was a child. And for his 50th, we had a black and silver theme with lots of jokes about being over-the-hill.

This year he turned 55, and I really hadn’t planned to do a party. I bought him tickets to a Broadway show and made a reservation at a nice restaurant for dinner beforehand. However, a few days before the date, my daughter called and asked: “what are we were doing for Dad’s birthday?” And, even though my kids are grown, I felt bad that my plans hadn’t taken them into consideration (guilt is a many “splendored thing”). So, on the spur of the moment, I came up with the idea to throw him a British-themed birthday party.

Over the holidays we were sharing memories about our grandparents with our children. And my husband spoke rapturously about the Cornish pasties that his British grandmother used to make.

Traditional Cornish pasties --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man
Traditional Cornish pasties are shortcrust pastry circles filled with diced uncooked meat, potatoes, turnip, onion, salt, and pepper. The dough is folded over into crescents, the edges are crimped, and then they are baked to a golden brown.

This gave me the idea to try to recreate these savory meat pies from scratch. The British menu would also include vegetable pasties (because my daughter is a vegetarian), my easy pear salad (see recipe below), and a trifle for dessert. A traditional English trifle is made with berries. I couldn’t find decent looking berries in the grocery store, and I wasn’t excited about using frozen berries because I feared they’d be too watery, so I chose to make a coconut trifle instead. My husband doesn’t drink but a frosty mug of beer or ale would be perfect with this meal.

Coconut Cream Pie Trifle --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man
Coconut Cream Pie Trifle

With no time to procure Brit-themed party decorations, I had to use what I had around the house. I thought about what single thing would most convey the British theme. I concluded that what we needed was a Union Jack. Sadly, I did not have a British flag stashed away in a cupboard somewhere. What I did have, was several yards of blue fabric and some red and white ribbon –and voilá, I had a Union Jack tablecloth.

British Union Jack tablecloth --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man
British Union Jack tablecloth made with blue fabric and red and white ribbon.

The plate stack contained pewter chargers, red dinner plates, blue and white English Blue Willow transferware salad plates. Blue hobnail goblets, and white hemstitched napkins with the red, white, and blue napkin rings I had made for the 4th of July, completed the table setting.

Red, white, and blue British themed table setting --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man

The centerpiece was a simple glass cube filled with red and white tulips from the grocery store.

Red and White tulip centerpiece for a British tablescape --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man

I also had some red, white, and blue tissue paper honeycomb balls which we hung from the chandelier.

British themed tablescape --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man
Tissue paper honeycomb balls add a festive touch to the chandelier.

My daughter had spent a semester in England, so I asked her to bring over anything British she had that we could use as party decor. Her sweater-wearing English bear and Union Jack piggybank took center stage on the buffet. And I hung a Highclere Castle tea towel, my parents brought me back from a tour of the real Downton Abbey, from the edge of the of the buffet.

British buffet vignette --A Themed Birthday Party For A Man

My husband wasn’t expecting anything special, so he was really surprised. And even though my Cornish pasties were not quite as good as his grandmother’s, he really enjoyed them. After dinner, he opened his presents, we watched a British movie, and a grand time was had by all.

There are several things that I took away from this party. The first is that a great birthday party theme can come from anywhere. Second, you can create festive party decorations from things you have lying around your house. And finally, even if you are party-pooped, you can quickly and easily pull together a fun themed birthday party for a man that he will love and that will be well worth the effort.

5 from 5 votes

Pear Salad

Servings 4


  • 1 5oz. package pre-washed baby arugula
  • 2 Bosc or D'Anjou pears chopped
  • 1 3.5 oz. package crumbled goat cheese
  • 1/2 cup pecan halves toasted
  • 1/3 cup tart dried cherries
  • 1/4 cup fresh squeezed lemon juice
  • 1 tbsp honey
  • 1 tbsp Dijon mustard
  • 1/2 tsp kosher salt
  • 1/4 tsp freshly ground pepper
  • 1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil


  1. Place the first four ingredients in a large bowl.

  2. To make the vinaigrette, place the lemon juice, honey, Dijon mustard, salt and pepper in a small bowl or glass measuring cup and whisk together.

  3. Add the olive oil and whisk until emulsified.

  4. Pour the vinaigrette over the salad and toss well.

If you were interested in this post, you may be interested in these other themed adult birthday parties:

A Quilt-themed Birthday Party

A Succulent Succulents Cake For An 80th Birthday Party


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18 thoughts on “A Themed Birthday Party For A Man

  1. I love this! A lot of times when something is labeled “for a man” you end up with really stereotypical “man things.” But often times what people who click on those links are really looking for is stuff for someone who doesn’t necessarily love pretty things rather than someone who is a caricature of masculinity. This is really well put together and the kind of party I think anyone would love to have thrown for them! Happy birthday to your husband!

  2. 5 stars
    What a great tablescape for his birthday! I love all the red/white/blue! I will be pinning that one. Saw your link at the “Build your email list” linky party and just subscribed. I am Kathleen Rupp #42 from Everything Karupped blog. My husband and I are diyers as well- Nice to meet you! Love your website!

    1. Thanks so much Kathleen. It was a fun spur of the moment party. I appreciate the subscription. I’ve reciprocated and look forward to seeing what you are up to on your blog.

  3. Ahhh I know exactly how you feel Lisa, my hubby’s birthday is on the 12th of January so the poor man seldom gets a big party bash. I’ll have to remember how you did this for next year. Perhaps I can surprise him. Your British themed party turned out simply spiffing 😉

    1. Thanks so much, Michelle. As I said in my post, it’s hard to be enthusiastic for another celebration so close to Christmas and New Years. However, if the response from my husband to our impromptu party is any indication, I will try to suck it up and make the effort more often. We’ve got to take care of our guys and let them know how much we appreciate all they do!

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